How do you know when to seek help for bedwetting?

Here are some general guidelines:

• Your child suddenly begins wetting the bed, when she has never had a problem with staying dry all night before.
• Your child asks for help with his bedwetting problem.
• Bedwetting is beginning to cause problems in your household.
• Your child avoids activities such as slumber parties, camping, summer camp, etc. because of bedwetting.
• Your child is having emotional, behavioral, or social problems because of wetting the bed.

If you notice any of the above circumstances, start by asking your child's pediatrician for help with the bedwetting problem.

And remember that love, patience, and sensitivity in dealing with a child who wets the bed will go a long way toward helping her avoid emotional damage from her embarrassing condition.